You're a Dream GF!

You're a definite keeper. You're not needy or clingy and you're almost as much fun to be around as one of the guys! You know exactly how much space your guy needs and how to keep your own groove on while in a relationship.

But yet I know exactly how it feels when the venus in you acts up and it's so easy to succumb to become what guys do not want. Like when you miss that somebody and your heart is dancing at your toes you feel the butterflies you pick up the phone you call he misses you message you delete you hang around in c-space he's not. then remember from a korean flick that the biggest mistakes girls make is to cling onto the man. Yes. Fight the urge.

And while we are at relationships, I found this really beautiful poem, at some friend's friend's LJ, which, IMO, is pretty well written. I just love her metaphors. Real mental.

Sex without love

How do they do it, the ones who make love
without love? Beautiful as dancers,
Gliding over each other like ice-skaters
over the ice, fingers hooked
inside each other's bodies, faces
red as steak, wine, wet as the
children at birth, whose mothers are going to
give them away. How do they come to the
come to the come to the God come to the
still waters, and not love
the one who came there with them, light
rising slowly as steam off their joined
skin? These are the true religious,
the purists, the pros, the ones who will not
accept a false Messiah, love the
priest instead of the God. They do not
mistake the lover for their own pleasure,
they are like great runners: they know they are alone
with the road surface, the cold, the wind,
the fit of their shoes, their over-all cardio
vascular health--just factors, like the partner
in the bed, and not the truth, which is the
single body alone in the universe
against its own best time.

-- Sharon Olds

So to what extent do you agree? Comments?